Being a feminist is often an accusation. Thanks to the perpetrators of the myth (Rush Limbaugh being one of them, but you know they are everywhere), a feminist is not simply someone who believes in equality between everyone and is specifically fighting for equality between the sexes. No, a feminist is a radical--a Nazi, even. Feminists are looking to castrate all men and take over the world with their butch haircuts and baby-killing ways.
If you are lucky enough to be a male feminist, you are full of self-loathing. You hate yourself because you believe that women are not below you. You might as well get a sex reassignment surgery and start working in Real Estate.
All right, so I'm guilty. I'm a feminist. There are lots of us, sure, but there are lots of "them," too. What else would we fight against?